God's Favorite Things - HOPE

When you're at the end of your rope...

Hope can be an elusive thing.

Just ask Sara Eberhardt. To be more precise, ask her parents.
When Sara was 3 years old in 1994, her mother took her to the doctor for a routine check-up.
The appointment ended up being far from ordinary.

The doctor felt something abnormal around Sara’s stomach; a biopsy revealed a bilateral Wilms tumor, or cancer in both of her kidneys. The dreaded "c" word. Nothing could possibly take away one's desire to see good in the world quicker than a situation you're not sure you can find your way out of. If you've been there, as a parent or as a person, you know the feeling.

It is during this time of the year that many people are faced with the stark reality that life truly can be harsh and unforgiving. We learn in these times that we either flee or fight. Life has a way of putting us flat on our backs looking up. Do we get up or lie there? Life can suck just right out of us, life.

There's only one place to go when we reach this spot in the road. Hope.

The nation of Israel found itself in just such a moment.
Downtrodden under Roman rule. Worn by the rigors of Jewish law.
Hebrew people found little be joyful about. They found it hard to love anyone. Peace was not found in their hearts.

And, then the promise of all promises was fulfilled.

Matthew 1:18-25

New International Version (NIV)

Joseph Accepts Jesus as His Son

18 This is how the birth of Jesus the Messiah came about[a]: His mother Mary was pledged to be married to Joseph, but before they came together, she was found to be pregnant through the Holy Spirit. 19 Because Joseph her husband was faithful to the law, and yet[b] did not want to expose her to public disgrace, he had in mind to divorce her quietly.
20 But after he had considered this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, “Joseph son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. 21 She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus,[c] because he will save his people from their sins.”
22 All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had said through the prophet: 23 “The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel”[d] (which means “God with us”).
24 When Joseph woke up, he did what the angel of the Lord had commanded him and took Mary home as his wife. 25 But he did not consummate their marriage until she gave birth to a son. And he gave him the name Jesus.
Can you imagine the moment?
We discussed at one point the moment when the angel appeared to Mary.
Now, the same angel appears to Joseph as well. I wonder how he handled it?
Well, scripture suggests that he was scared and confused before the angel spoke to him.
How was he after? He takes it all to heart and does exactly when he needs to do.

Was he truly righteous? Was he just scared out of his mind?
Hey, an angel appearing to someone must be a traumatic moment.
Never been there, but to be in the presence of something holy and glorious; it can't be easy.

Here's what I see in Joseph's actions. Hope.

And, what is hope? Well, it's about time we looked at that.

Definition of HOPE

intransitive verb
1:  to cherish a desire with anticipation <hopes for a promotion>
2  archaic :  trust
transitive verb
1:  to desire with expectation of obtainment
2:  to expect with confidence :  trust

Hmmm. The scripture suggests that he went right to Mary and brought her home to be his wife.
No delay. No contemplation or over thinking the moment. Hope has a way of doing that. When we actually have our focus on what can be it causes use to do things we might not normally do.

When I knew this was going to be my subject today, HOPE, the first thing that came to my mind was the movie The Shawshank Redemption. If you haven't seen it, I highly recommend you take it in, just once. The message of hope is central.

Here we have a man named Andy Dufresne. His wife cheated on him and then was tragically killed. The police immediately come after him as their prime suspect and lock him away in prison for the rest of his life. Knowing that he is innocent, but coming to grips with the idea that he was not the perfect husband and quite possibly pushed his wife away, Andy still has hope. If a truly good movie is doing it's work it causes us to put ourselves in the shoes of the character and feel what he is feeling.

We go through all kinds of things in life, but do we truly deserve to be walked all over? To be downtrodden and left without a breath of life left in us? The character Andy Dufresne has been through it all behind the walls of this prison. But, he still hangs on to the idea of hope. That one day a wrong will be righted and he could go free to live in the world again.

Cancer has a way of robbing a person of the basic freedom to live. It can feel like a prison.
Life becomes a series of tests. One can feel like a lab rat and not a human being.
The treatments. The doctor visits. The inability to simply eat a meal or walk through the house.

In the case of Sara Eberhardt, at the age of 3, she endured 65 weeks of chemotherapy, one week of radiation treatments, and surgery to remove one kidney. As a 3-year-old, cancer may have taken away her hair and her kidney, but not her passion for life.

Chicago Sun-Times film reviewer Roger Ebert suggested that The Shawshank Redemption is an allegory for maintaining one's feeling of self-worth when placed in a hopeless position. Andy Dufresne's integrity is an important theme in the story line, especially in prison, where integrity is lacking. If you've seen the film, do you remember Andy talking with his friend, Red (played by Morgan Freeman) about that subject, HOPE? Red had been in prison for a long time. Never thought he'd see the outside ever again. Finally, Red is amazingly paroled. Once on the outside, he finds a letter from his friend. Andy had this line in his letter... 

Remember, Red. Hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things, and no good thing ever dies.

And, the big line from the movie. Red repeats it as he packs up and leaves town.
Get busy livin' or get busy dying.
Hope can push us to do something we might not normally do. Sara Eberhardt knows this to be true.
Years later, the thriving 21-year-old senior at Winona State University in Minnesota is an active, passionate volunteer. For the past four years, she has been co-president of her university’s Colleges Against Cancer® program, raising funds and awareness and encouraging her fellow students to participate in Relay For Life® events on campus.
“From the little girl who was diagnosed with kidney cancer, to the strong-willed American Cancer Society volunteer I am today,” says Eberhardt, “I’m standing tall, as an 18-year cancer survivor, ready to finish the fight against cancer!”

Hope is truly one of God's favorite things.
Without it we have nothing. Do you sit there and simply listen to what I'm saying on Sunday?
Or, does all of this bring you to a place of purpose in life? To help others in need. To show love to someone who has nothing. To share joy with someone who needs a lift. To pray for peace in a dark and dank situation. To hope and put that hope into action.

Many of you put your hope in me as I came here to be your pastor.
This past week, I put my hope in you and you did not disappoint.
For many of you, the hope is that I can bring this church back to a place of prominence again.
My hope is that you might truly grab hold of this faith in Christ and in doing so, can be the light of the world to a community in need of one great thing. HOPE.

God's favorite things can be found in our everyday lives. As simple as a gesture filled with love.

Go and be what God desires most. His favorite things.

God's Favorite Things - PEACE

 “Peace begins with a smile.” ― Mother Teresa

What we are going cover today is one of God's favorite things that may just be the hardest for human beings to grasp. PEACE.

It is something we elude to and say that we want, but do we really understand what it is?

As I began to think about the subject, I recalled a moment in a class I took at MTSO in my second year in the Course of Study. It was a class on Christian Education and it was taught by Randy Litchfield who is now the Academic Dean. There were 20-22 people in the class and all of us were required to give a 5-6 minute summary presentation on a subject we might teach on. You can imagine the tense feeling of trying to present your summary in this tight window of time. From the back of the class, Dr Litchfield would survey our work and as one approached the end of their time he would let each person know they had "two minutes" left with a 'two finger sign'.

As I gave my presentation on the subject of sanctification, I'm rolling along and not even thinking about the time. I got down to my last two minutes and Dr Litchfield quietly held his 'two finger sign' to which I, without missing a beat, said "peace, brother, peace" and kept right on trucking through my talk.

We all know peace means much more. And, we are looking at much deeper moment from the scriptures. A moment where some angels spoke to some shepherds in a very familiar passage of scripture off this time of year.

Luke 2:8-14

New International Version (NIV)
8 And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. 9 An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. 10 But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. 11 Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. 12 This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.”
13 Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying,
14 “Glory to God in the highest heaven,
    and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.”

Peace is a tricky thing, a difficult thing to define for each individual person.
We all need it or want it. But, what bring each of us peace can be vastly different.
It's probably good to look at exactly what we are talking about....

Definition of PEACE

 noun
1:  a state of tranquillity or quiet: as
  a :  freedom from civil disturbance
  b :  a state of security or order within a community provided for by law or custom peace
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2 :  freedom from disquieting or oppressive thoughts or emotions
3 :  harmony in personal relations
4 a :  a state or period of mutual concord between governments
   b :  a pact or agreement to end hostilities between those who have been at war or in a state of enmity
5 —used interjectionally to ask for silence or calm or as a greeting or farewell
— at peace
:  in a state of concord or tranquillity
: a state in which there is no war or fighting
: an agreement to end a war
: a period of time when there is no war or fighting

As is to be expected, the word is a noun and it can be used possessively. My peace. Your peace.
Even children have a good idea of what peace is. Ask them and you'll hear right away...no fighting...no war.
Here's something interesting I found in my research. It's also used as a verb. Yea...an action word.

Definition of PEACE

intransitive verb
:  to be, become, or keep silent or quiet 
Hmmm. This really threw me. I hadn't thought of peace as something we do. 
And, I wasn't expecting that whole transitive thing to be here either.
You remember what that means. Things can be transferred between parties. From party 1 to party two and on to party 3. But, in this case, peace is an intransitive thing. No transference. You don't 'pass the peace'  between parties, even though we have heard that old adage before. Peace is a personal thing. It is something a person has to work out for themselves.

On Thursday of this past week, I scrapped this whole sermon I had so far on 'peace'.
I just wasn't happy with what I had; wasn't peaceful about what I had written so far.
Then, I had nothing going towards Sunday.
Talk about having 'peace' with what I'm going to preach about come Sunday. Whoa....

I remember what the Lord showed me years ago.

Jeremiah 1:4-5

New International Version (NIV)

The Call of Jeremiah

4 The word of the Lord came to me, saying,
5 “Before I formed you in the womb I knew[a] you,
    before you were born I set you apart;
    I appointed you as a prophet to the nations.”

Yea...he called me to work for Himself.
That took several years to work that out in my heart. To come to some kind of 'peace' with that.
But, The Lord also said other thing to Jeremiah in this same passage.

Jeremiah 1:6-9

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6 “Alas, Sovereign Lord,” I said, “I do not know how to speak; I am too young.”
7 But the Lord said to me, “Do not say, ‘I am too young.’ You must go to everyone I send you to and say whatever I command you. 8 Do not be afraid of them, for I am with you and will rescue you,” declares the Lord.
9 Then the Lord reached out his hand and touched my mouth and said to me, “I have put my words in your mouth.

Ah, so he will give me the words to say. I have to trust him on that and be at peace.
And, I think he's doing pretty good so far....

Saw a really good program Saturday evening. A program I planned on watching, but as I was in the middle of it, I knew it was exactly what I needed to see. A message on peace.
Maybe you saw it too. "Youngstown Boys". The stories of Maurice Clarett & Jim Tressel.
Tressel, the coach. Clarett, the player. Both coming out of the world of Youngstown, OH.
Growing up in different worlds and having different outcomes.

Clarett would lose his dad, grow up around influences that would not serve him well.
Seeing the underbelly of the Youngstown world, the drug traffic and the hard life.
He would find football as a medium to help him develop into a young man and later find his way into the world of college athletics at the Ohio State University.
He would challenge long standing rules about getting into the NFL, looking to go early before the rules said he was eligible. Striking out, he would wait and 2 years after playing for a National Championship would finally get his crack at it.

But, in the process of waiting, he found his way into deleterious influences.
In the world on Los Angeles, California he found a world of alcohol and trouble.
His tryout for the NFL would not go as well as he had hoped, mainly due to his lack of planning ahead.
Amazingly, the Denver Broncos took a stab at him and would draft him in the third round of the NFL Draft.
But, his tryouts did not go well and he did not even see the field during the preseason.

Seeing his world slipping away from him, Maurice would fall in depression and more alcohol.
Many of us remember the headlines. Getting into trouble, arrested with a vehicle full of weapons and accused of stealing from a person on the east side of Columbus. Clarett was sentenced to over a year in jail.

It would be in that setting that he would finally find his inner peace.

As the door on his cell slammed behind him, Clarett was finally alone with his thoughts.
That's what life in prison forces you to do. Alone with your feelings and remembering where it all went wrong, a person is forced to think. You can let it drive you crazy with remorse or you can work it out.
Maurice chose to work it out.

He would journal his thoughts and send letters to his girlfriend, the mother of his recent addition to the world, a daughter. His girlfriend would put those letters into a blog on the internet for other to read, so that people could see what Maurice was struggling with inside. After more than a year on the inside, Clarett would emerged a changed man. 

He had worked it out. He had found his peace.

He was sorry for all the trouble he had caused his family, his mother. He was sorry for all the trouble he had put his own self through. Alcohol no longer ruled his life. Freedom would lead the way. Now, he speaks at church and in front of youth groups. He goes to prison and shares with the inmates. He has re-enrolled at Ohio State and is working on his degree. He and former coach Tressel work together to better the state of athletics in the State of Ohio, making life better for students looking to play sports.

A far cry from the broken life he once knew under depression and alcohol.

Peace truly is something that one must work out for oneself.
I can show you love. Love can be a transitive thing. I can help you feel warm and fuzzy inside be showing you love. I can share my joy with you. If I am happy, my joy can rub off on you. It can be transferred.
Peace cannot. It truly cannot be transferred. I can share some things with you, but i cannot cause you to feel peace. It truly is something for a person work out and experience for oneself.

Have you ever been on a 'retreat'? In Maurice's context, prison is a forced retreat.
A time to purposefully get away and simply focus. To work out whatever issues we have on our plate.
To finally come to peace with what we are wrestling with inside. A good retreat can work wonders.

Ok, I'm going to wrap this up by speaking to my OCD people out there. (Hold your hand up if you care to admit that you are OCD.) Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. Everything has to work out just like this and just like that in order for all to be right in the world. Talk about being robbed of your peace.

We're all a little OCD at times. Maybe some more than others.
Maybe a little time away is what we truly need. Maybe we need to get away. Lock ourselves up with nothing but a bible and God until we have worked out the issues driving us crazy. Everything in our physical world isn't going to go perfectly. Everything isn't going to be exactly the way we want it to be. The only thing or person we can truly control is sitting right there reading this message. The peace we can find is what we need on the inside of that person. You.

Closing the service today, we will sing #245, The First Noel.
Did you know this is the OCD person's hymn? It is! Look at everything that needs to go right in this song in order for it all to work out. 5 verses. And, by the end of it, the baby is born, the wise men come, the gifts are given, all is well with the world. It all works out.

The angels spoke truly prolific words that day to some shepherds. Some every day people.
Not to kings and senators. To the everyday people. With their everyday worries and common cares.
"
....and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests."

Peace. It's worth seeking. And, finding. If you are willing to take the time.